This is a simple, creative, mindfulness practice that we can enjoy to celebrate Mother’s Day. You can do this with family, friends, a class or any group. You can also do it as an exploration on your own, to tap into a sense of care and nourishment.
· Helps us to appreciate
· Strengthens connection
· Grows gratitude
It’s super-simple. We explore together:
What do we think about when we hear the word ‘mother’? What kinds of thoughts or feelings come up?
It might be our own mother (or mothers), maybe a sense of care, making sure you brush your teeth, big hugs, being annoyed when you don’t listen – welcome every sharing.
Note: If someone is feeling very negative about their mother, you can guide them to focus on themselves – they get to be here, safe and healthy. That wouldn’t have been possible with out their mother. So that’s something good.
We might remember (or imagine) our grandmothers, and great-grandmothers - and further back still. This line of women who nourished our family for hundreds, thousands of years. We know they travelled from other lands – they sailed in dangerous waters, and reached new lands, and were brave and wise and had great days and awful days, and because they lived, we get to live. Amazing!
Animal and Other Mothers
We can explore wider: what about an otter mother, or a squirrel mom, or an eagle ma, or a great blue whale mammy – what do they have in common? Allow ourselves to imagine all these mothers across the world, caring and protecting and feeding and teaching.
And wider still!
Our Mother Earth
If we think of a mother as someone who helps us to grow and cares for us, then the Earth is our biggest mother of all. We can explore the homes she provides (house, tent, nest, burrows, an ocean to swim around in), all the tasty food that she grows for us, the beautiful places that she has offered us to enjoy. She is the mother of all of us. And she is kind, patient, wildly creative, and accepts us just as we are. So we can try to take good care of her and live in a way that protects her.
The crafty part!
(1) Cut out heart shapes (you can do this in advance for ease).
You can use any coloured paper, or choose colours as themes, for example:
· pink paper = is alive with us
· peach paper = is not alive with us (but is alive in us!)
· green paper = Earth mother
(2) Then we decorate our hearts. We can draw pictures or use words to represent someone and something that we love about them.
It might be something we love in our mother. It might be saying thank you to a great x 10 grandmother, whose name we don’t even know – thanks for being you so that I can be me. And we might notice that there are other people in our lives who are like mothers - who take care of us and help us grow. So we don’t need to be strict about this. And we can all colour a heart or twenty for the Earth, for the great food and musicians and stories and people and pets that she has brought into our lives. Thanks!
(3) We make a display of all our beautiful hearts, and enjoy the offerings of love and gratitude.
We can put a hand on our heart to connect deeply with it.
We are cared for in so many ways. May we always know how much we are cared for.
(4) Spreading the love
We can wish our sense of care to travel around the world, finding anyone who is feeling lost or alone. May they be reassured, may they know they are cared for, and feel warm and safe and loved.